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Don't avoid, or
talk yourself out of, your feelings
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Share feelings
and make statements, not judgements
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Admit it when
you're wrong, then he'll be ready to listen
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Be vulnerable
with your mate, yet strong: "I'm upset because ...., so I need
this to change."
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Reveal your true
self, flaws and all (but only if he does the same)
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Fight fair. No
name calling or cursing. Listen and repeat back what he said
before you start talking so he'll know you heard him.